Day 25 of the 30 Day Libido & Vitality Reset!
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Day 25 of the 30 Day Libido & Vitality Reset!
Body image, self-acceptance, my health pivots, secrets of healthy libido, and more ✨
"Nourishing yourself in a way that helps you blossom in the direction you want to go is attainable, and you are worth the effort." — Deborah Day
Wow, it’s the final week of our reset! Twenty-five days of resetting and intention setting, and here we are.
Firstly, how are you? How are you feeling? I’d love to hear from you. Even if you just joined us, or perhaps your reset isn’t going as planned, comment below and let’s connect ❤️
This month has been a big one for me. It’s nearly been 4 months since I birthed our baby girl, Magnolia. Four months since I was 30 weeks pregnant and my waters unexpectedly broke and I ended up birthing her in hospital (far from my plan to birth at home like I did with our son, Sol).
To be honest I think this past month is the first month that the sleep loss and stress of her early arrival has kicked in, which has made it the perfect month to focus on my health. I began to notice me energy dipping, and libido dropping, so I chose to cut out sugar and wheat, with tiny treats every now and then for good measure. My treats have been the occasional Loco Love chocolate (relatively healthy, but still a hit of choc!), and the occasional quiche from the bakery. Oh, and a coconut ice cream each Saturday at the markets. I’ve not once felt guilty or shamed myself when I’ve enjoyed a little treat - all in good measure, I say!
I think my biggest challenge this month has been exercise! I intended on rebounding every morning however now that Magnolia is waking more often, I’ve found it harder to take time out. So I’ve pivoted from my original intention and have begun taking her walking in the morning instead! I either put her in the pram, or in the carrier, and go walking for at least 30 minutes. This gives me an opportunity to be in nature, plus listen to a podcast and take some time out. To be honest I think walking is actually better for my mental AND physical health than rebounding, so it’s a win!
The other thing I added in last week was a private pilates class! I’ve booked in my teacher who used to teach the group classes I went to, and we begin next week. TICK!! I’m also trying a Mums ‘n Bubs pilates class this Wednesday - hopefully I love it because then I can do pilates 2 x week and take Magnolia with me (which is my highest priority right now).
So there’s my health updates - I could’ve chosen to focus on the challenges, but instead I’ve just pivoted and am happy with myself that I’m taking baby steps (lol, literally) to feel better!
Oh and how could I forget … my libido is up a bit! Not heaps, which is common when breastfeeding and being up in the night with a newborn, but I definitely have the drive there to connect with Nick sexually, which I love.
Other highlights this month:
Planting Magnolia’s placenta under a mandarin tree on our property (this was a very special ritual). See a little video here.
Taking time to reflect on what next for me in business and life in general! Nick and I have been talking lots about our 5 year plan, and refining our vision for the future as a family. As a result, I’m adding something new alongside my other offerings! It’s a total change, and a little unexpected, but I’m excited at what the opportunity can do for us as a family! I’ll be sharing more later this week. Comment below if you want to be the first to know and I’ll reply soon with a link with more info. I can’t wait to share with you ❤️
So here we are. In the last week of a month of choosing something different for our health and for our life. Congrats for being here, for choosing you, and for prioritising you libido and vitality :) I appreciate you all so much, and I truly do love this community that we’ve created together.
Lots of love! Juliet xo
WORKSHEET:
Exploring Body Image & Self Acceptance.
Body image and self-acceptance can have a big impact on our sexual desire and confidence in the bedroom. So, if you're looking to boost this within yourself, check out my recent worksheet on Body Positivity. It's a tool to help you embrace and love your body as it is. Completing it will deepen your body appreciation and offer practical ways to nurture body positivity in your daily life. It's available to paid subscribers, or if you're a free subscriber, you can access it with a 7-day FREE trial. Enjoy the journey!
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Podcast 067: The Secrets of a Healthy Libido and Lust for Life w/ Nick Perry
In this episode of Authentic Sex, my partner Nick Perry and I explore the secrets of enjoying a healthy libido and feeling turned on in every aspect of life. As many of you already know, Nick is a Holistic Lifestyle Coach, and he's deeply passionate about living an inspired and turned-on life. We'll discuss the significance of nutrition, movement, sleep, and thoughts, and explore effective ways to communicate and express our truths within our lives and relationships. It's going to be a great conversation to keep you (and myself) motivated in this Reset!
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Podcast 093: How To Feel Great Naked with Leela Kalyani
In this episode of Authentic Sex with feminine healing guide, Leela Kalyani, we’re talking about learning to love our genitals, the importance of exercise and nutrition, body massage, embracing our bodies as they change throughout life, seeking support around traumatic experiences, and so much more. If you’re looking for tips on feeling confident, not just sexually, but in everyday life, you'll really enjoy this free podcast episode
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Podcast 095: Plant Medicine for Libido, Fertility & Birth with Erin Lovell Verinder
In this episode of Authentic Sex, I had the pleasure of talking with herbalist and nutritionist, Erin Lovell Verinder, to share her expertise. We explore the world of natural herbs for a healthy libido, enhanced fertility, and childbirth preparation. Trust me, it's a game-changer for those deep into their fertility journey and a fantastic listen for anyone interested!
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JOURNAL RECOMMENDATIONS:
How To Feel Comfortable Naked Every Day
Unlocking confidence and vitality through body acceptance can lead to liberating experiences, both in and out of the bedroom. Check out this blog post for my tips on working through fear to embrace nudity and honouring your inner nudist!
5 Realistic Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life
At some point in our lives, we all face moments when our sex life seems to hit a rough patch. In long-term relationships, it's natural to experience ups and downs, and it's common for couples to feel a bit bored or uninspired by their sex life. Now, especially as we're diving into this Libido and Vitality Reset, it's the perfect time to shake things up and add some spice to your life! So, here are five practical ways that can help spice up your sex life starting today.
OTHER RESOURCES HERE IN SUBSTACK:
**These resources are exclusively for my paid subscribers. To get a taste of what it’s like to join my paid community, I'm currently offering a 7-day free trial ❤️
Worksheet #1: Understanding how your childhood experiences influence your sex life as an adult.
Worksheet #5: Exploring & Understanding Sexual Shadow - with guest teacher, Nick Perry.
Day 25 of the 30 Day Libido & Vitality Reset!
I've been wanting to write here .... but this last week just went by so quickly. I have had an intense cleanse on the weekend of the 23. It has been a gut cleanse but also very much an emotional one. After that I had my period so the cleanse kind of continued. I also got some news that were difficult to process regarding the health of my father. So the last week has been very emotional. Now I am feeling a little more settled and even though I've got a bit of a running nose I feel like my vitality and libido are coming back tenfold...its really pleasurable and beautiful. Also since I am on holidays for two weeks and signed up for a paid subscription I want to continue a little around the routines to enhance my vitality and libido. I am looking forward to continue on this journey and to explore all your stuff. Much love!
Hi Juliet, Thanks so much for sharing. This has been such a beauitful offering and I've been loving having a focus on personal development and intention setting!
Today is day 1 of my cycle so Ive been feeling pretty heavy and emotional but I have really noticed positive changes since following through with my intentions (mostly) this month! I also just gave myself a guilt free day to not think about uni or any of the things I need to check off my to-do list, and just spend the whole day with self-care and things that made me feel good. This reset has helped me to remember the importance of that!
Ive really valued my little morning routine, and the impact of not looking at my phone for atleast 30 mintutes has been amazing. I start my day with self care, tea on my verandah, kinda just pottering around rather then phone in my face as soon as I wake up and its been great! I also notice I am less obsessed in checking and spending so much more time with it just being in a different room and not caring.
Ive only slept with one person this month and that conscious choice of only connecting in that way with people that align with my values has been really beautiful! This person was over last night, I told him that I was due to bleed so wasnt feeling like I wanted sex, instead we played card games with my roomates, and just kissed and talked and laughed. . I felt so cared for and valued and validated! I also deleted the dating apps and Its been refreshing! But after that Q/A I realised I dont have full clarity on my values so definetly trying to figure thast out! loved the live Q/A! Such a great community you have created and Im definitely interested in any other offerings that you have in the future.
Thankyou thankyou x