Hello, Darling Ones!
This month I have some wonderful news to share with you!
I'm PREGNANT!!
As many of you know, late last year Nick and I decided that we were ready to embark on our next conscious conception journey - baby number 2 together (we also have my beautiful 16 year-old daughter, who is was conceived when I was 23 with a different partner. So this will make us a family of 5).
In the lead up to us ‘trying’, we spent the last few months preparing our body, heart and mind for the journey, and felt very ready to welcome our next child into my womb and our family. We also felt prepared for it to take however long it needed to (Sol took 8 months to choose us, so I was mentally preparing myself it could take that length of time, or longer).
If you missed my previous shares about how we prepared in the lead up, see below. Note: turns out the ‘Fuck for the sake of fucking’ advice was the month we conceived!
Let's Get Personal: Our Next Conscious Conception Journey Has Begun ✨
Anyhow, this special little soul wasn’t wasting any time, and on the second month trying, I was shocked to discover that I was preggers! I swear if you saw my face when I saw the positive pregnancy test!
So here we are, stepping into second trimester and feeling extremely lucky and blessed to know I will soon be a Mother of three 🥰
I’ll be sharing more along the way, but I’ll leave it at that for today. I do want to check in and see how many of you are truly interested in reading about my pregnancy updates? Please take part in the little poll below.
Also, please understand and respect that I am only sharing my pregnancy news with my In Bed Substack community (that’s you!) for now. I don’t feel the need to share on social media any time soon, so this is our little secret ;)

In other news, I recently published what turned out to be my MOST POPULAR Substack article yet - The Sexologist’s Hand Job Guide. If you’re looking to up-skill in this area of sex, or simply curious about how I became so good at hand jobs (lol), you can read more here.
That’s it for this In Bed With Juliet news update! In the next few days I’ll be publishing January’s Q&A for all paid subscribers (lots of juicy questions for this one, thanks to you all!). If you’re keen to listen to last month’s Q&A, click here.
And if you missed this month’s new podcast ep, you can listen here.
One last thing, don’t forget to prioritise intimacy - both with yourself, and others. This advice sounds so simple, but it’s a busy world out there, and more and more people are letting this area of their lives slip. So please, take time right now to think about how you can enjoy connection and intimacy later today. And then go do what you commit to! It doesn’t need to be complicated, keep it simple.
Love you all so much,
Juliet xo
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...there is no better news! :)
Congratulations sweet mama! This is the most wonderful news ever, and you are already absolutely glowing in that photo 🤍