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Sex Ed: Ways to Enjoy More Outercourse
Experience pleasure beyond intercourse!
Today we're talking about a topic that I'm really passionate about - outercourse!
Now if you're not familiar with the term, outercourse refers to any kind of sexual activity that doesn't involve penetration. And let me tell you, there are so many amazing ways to enjoy outercourse that can be just as pleasurable (if not more so!) than traditional intercourse.
So, without further ado, here are some of my favourite ways to enjoy more outercourse:
1. Sensual massage
Nothing gets you in the mood quite like a good massage. Whether you're giving or receiving, taking the time to explore each other's bodies with your hands can be incredibly erotic. And the best part? You don't need any special equipment or toys - just some massage oil and your hands and body parts ;)
2. Oral sex
Okay, okay, I know that technically oral sex does sometimes involve some penetration, but hear me out. The great thing about oral sex is that it can be enjoyed as a standalone activity or as a lead-up to other sexual activities. Plus, there are so many different techniques to try - from gentle licks to deep-throating - that you'll never get bored.
When was the last time you really took your time with a kiss? Like, really explored your partner's mouth and savoured the sensations? Kissing can be incredibly intimate and erotic, and it doesn't have to lead to anything more if you don't want it to.
4. Mutual masturbation
Sometimes, the sexiest thing you can do is watch your partner pleasure themselves. And when you're both doing it at the same time? Hot damn! Mutual masturbation can be a great way to explore each other's fantasies and desires without any pressure to perform.
5. Sensory play
Have you ever tried using a blindfold, or playing with different textures like feathers or silk? Sensory play can be a really fun way to explore your partner's body and heighten your own sensations. Plus, it can be a great way to build trust and intimacy in your relationship.
6. Dirty talk
Communication is key in any sexual encounter, and dirty talk can be a really fun way to express your desires and fantasies. Whether you're whispering sweet nothings or shouting obscenities, don't be afraid to let your voice be a tool for pleasure.
Also known as dry-humping, is a fantastic way to enjoy outercourse with your partner. Rubbing your genitals against each other, usually with clothes on, can build arousal and intimacy without penetration. It can be done in different positions, with different fabrics, and if you're feeling adventurous, you can even try incorporating sex toys into your frottage play.
So there you have it - seven ways to enjoy more outercourse! Of course, these are just a few ideas to get you started - the possibilities are truly endless. Remember, the key to great sex (whether it involves penetration or not) is to be open-minded, communicative, and willing to explore. Happy playing!
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