Sex Ed: Beyond the Big O: Why Not Cumming During Sex Isn't a Big Deal.

Embracing Pleasure Beyond Orgasm.

Today I'm here to talk about a topic that often goes unspoken in the bedroom: what it means when your partner doesn't orgasm, and why you shouldn't take it personally! It's a common experience that can create stress and frustration for both partners, but it's important to remember that there's so much more to sex than just reaching climax. So, let's dive into "Beyond the Big O" and explore why not cumming during sex isn't a big deal after all.

Unfortunately, there’s a lot of stigma and shame attached to not being able to orgasm during sex. This can make it even harder for someone to talk about their experience and seek help, further exacerbating the issue. But let me make one thing clear: just because your partner doesn't reach climax, doesn't mean they didn't enjoy the experience! Read that again, because it’s true.

Remember that sexual function is complex, and varies from person to person. There is no one "right way" to experience pleasure or enjoy orgasmic energy. By removing the shame and stigma surrounding this topic, we can create a more open and accepting environment where people feel comfortable discussing their sexual experiences and seeking support when needed.

Let’s touch (pardon the pun) on some of the factors that can contribute to less orgasms: