Embrace Your Inner Kinky Bi*ch.

What is kinky sex? A mini guide for the curious ;)

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Sexual preferences and fantasies are a natural and normal part of human sexuality. While some people feel comfortable exploring their kinkier side, others may feel ashamed or embarrassed about their desires. Today I’m here to create a safe and non-judgmental space to talk about kink and help you embrace your own inner kinky bitch!

So, what is Kink?

Kinky sex refers to sexual practices that fall outside of conventional sexual norms and can encompass a wide range of activities. Here are a few examples of kinky sex practices:

1. BDSM: Bondage, discipline, domination, submission, sadism, and masochism (BDSM) is a form of kinky sex that involves power dynamics and can include activities such as spanking, flogging, role-playing, and restraint.

2. Role-playing: This involves taking on different personas or characters during sexual activity, such as a teacher and student, boss and employee, or doctor and patient.

3. Fetishism: A fetish is a sexual attraction to non-sexual objects or body parts, such as feet, leather, or latex. Some people enjoy incorporating fetishes into their sexual activities.

4. Exhibitionism: This involves exposing oneself or performing sexual acts in public or in front of others.

5. Voyeurism: This involves observing others engaging in sexual activity, either in person or through media such as videos or live-streams.

6. Group sex: This can refer to any sexual activity involving more than two people, such as threesomes, orgies, or group BDSM scenes.

7. Cross-dressing: This involves wearing clothing and accessories typically associated with the opposite gender, either in private or in public.

Please keep in mind that these activities should only be engaged in consensually with partners who are comfortable with the practices.

Why Embrace Your Kinkier Side?

Embracing your kinkier side can bring a new level of excitement, pleasure, and intimacy to your sex life. It can also help you explore and understand your desires and preferences more deeply, leading to greater self-awareness and self-confidence. Experimenting with kink can also strengthen your relationship with your partner if you're open and communicative about your desires and boundaries.

However, it's important to remember that kink is not for everyone, and that's perfectly okay. You should never feel pressured to engage in kink if it doesn't feel right for you.

How to Embrace Your Kinkier Side

Here are some tips to help you embrace your kinkier side:

1. Get informed: Before diving into kink, it's important to educate yourself about the various practices, safety measures, and etiquette involved. Read books, articles, and blogs, or attend workshops and events to learn more about kink.

2. Communicate with your partner: Communication is key when it comes to exploring kink. Talk openly and honestly with your partner about your desires and boundaries, and make sure you're both comfortable with what you're proposing.

3. Start small: If you're new to kink, start small and gradually build up to more intense activities. Experiment with light bondage, such as using silk ties or feather ticklers, before moving on to more intense BDSM activities.

4. Set boundaries: Set clear boundaries with your partner and make sure you both understand what is and isn't acceptable. Make sure to discuss safe words, which allow you to stop the activity at any time if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe.

5. Respect your partner's boundaries: It's important to respect your partner's limits and boundaries, just as you expect them to respect yours. If your partner isn't comfortable with a particular kink, respect their decision and find another activity that you both enjoy.

All-in-all, embracing your kinkier side can be a fun and exciting way to explore your sexuality and deepen your intimate relationships. Just remember to be informed, communicative, and respectful, and most importantly, to never do anything that doesn't feel right for you! It’s okay to say no!

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